Merab, Saul's older daughter, is first mentioned in the summary of Saul's family (1 Samuel 14:49). Saul had promised his daughter in marriage to whoever killed Goliath, a promise David's victory should have secured for him, but when the moment came to give Merab to David, Saul instead married her to Adriel of Meholah (18:17-19) -- Scripture noting that Saul's actual motive in offering her at all had been to use the marriage to place David into greater danger against the Philistines, not genuine favor (18:17). Merab herself is given no recorded words or reaction to being promised, then withheld, then married elsewhere. She bore five sons to Adriel. Years later, during a famine in David's reign attributed to Saul's earlier slaughter of the Gibeonites in violation of Israel's ancient treaty with them, David sought to make atonement, and the Gibeonites demanded seven of Saul's male descendants be handed over for execution; five of these were 'the sons of Merab... whom she bore to Adriel' by the widely accepted reading of 2 Samuel 21:8, and they were killed and left exposed until Rizpah's vigil led David to see to their proper burial (2 Samuel 21:1-9). Merab's own story, though brief, illustrates how the political marriages and violent choices of Saul's kingship carried painful, lethal consequences into the next generation of his family.
Thought for Today
Saul promised Merab to whoever killed Goliath, then gave her to another man once David earned her, using his own daughter as a pawn to endanger David rather than reward him honestly. Jesus never uses people as means to an end the way Saul did; every promise He makes is kept exactly as given.
References: 1 Samuel 14:49; 1 Samuel 18:17-19; 2 Samuel 21:8
