Diotrephes — stained-glass style portrait

Diotrephes (M)

Name means “Nourished by Jupiter” — Greek

First named in 3 John 1:9

NT Apostolic

Diotrephes is named directly, and critically, in John's third epistle, one of only a small handful of individuals in the New Testament singled out by name for negative rebuke in this way. John writes that Diotrephes, "who loves to be first among them, does not accept what we say" -- refusing to acknowledge the authority of John's own apostolic ministry within the local church (3 John 1:9). John lists his offenses in escalating order: he was "unjustly accusing us with wicked words," refused to welcome the traveling brothers John had sent to support the church's ministry, and "forbids those who desire to do so and puts them out of the church" -- actively excommunicating members simply for extending hospitality to legitimate gospel workers (1:10). This portrait of a local leader consolidating personal power, silencing outside correction, spreading slander, and punishing those loyal to apostolic teaching stands as one of the New Testament's clearest warnings against church leadership corrupted by pride rather than humble service. John promises that if he comes in person, he "will call attention to his deeds," holding him publicly accountable (1:10). By contrast, John immediately commends a different figure, Demetrius, "well spoken of by everyone," as the kind of leader worth imitating instead (1:12) -- a deliberate contrast placed right alongside Diotrephes's rebuke.

Thought for Today

Diotrephes loved to be first and pushed out anyone who welcomed others into the church. Jesus, though Lord over all, made Himself last and a servant of all.

References: 3 John 1:9

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